Friday, May 31, 2013

Allow me to have a celebrity moment...


Photo Credit: IamDiddy Instagram

Getting personal, in a celebrity kind of way...by taking to my blog to update you.

Allow me to personally introduce myself, and make my entrance back to my blog talking about something that's really popular now...Trying to land a job covering pop culture.

Maybe it's not so popular, maybe I just don't know enough people. Maybe it was just a fad and all of the classes and interviews are a thing of the past and stepping into the real world, that just isn't going to fly.

Nope not true, it is a dog eat dog profession and I have learned first hand that it's hard to come by.

For the last year I have been trying to build a name for myself, on social media, through email, on facebook. linkedln, this blog, serving tables and networking but it hasn't been enough. It has been a year and some change since I graduated college with a degree in English with a concentration in journalism and so far the only change has been working 20-30 hours a week at my restaurant job as a server/bar tender. I have watched my friends dreams fall into place. Becoming teachers, working for the criminal justice system, graduate school, starting businesses and even landing jobs in journalism.

Did I mention the part about not getting into grad school?

I have always had big city dreams and nightmares of failures. Wondered how after "keeping in touch" and interning I still can't manage to land the perfect gig.

I'm holding my unpaid freelance work writing weekly reviews for The Voice online for a local newspaper in great stride, even thought its a step in the right direction...I want more.

I dream way to big, and out loud, but I want the world to hear me, and see me. This post isn't to wallow in my sorrows, but to let people know that it's just a challenge, but I know after all the fight and struggle it will work out in the end. I have my mind set on building a pop culture empire, and landing my dream job.

Stay tuned, and focused. It will happen for me, it will happen for us.

I promise.

 
Tati

Monday, May 6, 2013

Get to know Real World Portland's Hurricane Nia

Photo Credit: Nia Moore
 
At the start of season 28 of the Real World Portland, we were introduced to 7 new people and a dog. Within one episode a roommate dropped and MTV blessed us all with the presance of  Nia, also known to most as Hurricane Nia. Each week we watch Nia shake things up and bring entertainment, conversation, and excitement to the Portland house. We had the chance to catch up with the star of the Real World Portland and talk about her experience, her 6 audition tapes, and of course her relatioinship with the houses' tiniest roommate, Daisy.
 
 
Photo Credit: Nia Moore
 
 
ThisISPOP: What made you decide to audition for the Real World?
 
Nia: I have always wanted to do it since I was a little kid, I was like “That’s an awesome idea to go and I obviously get away from the real world for 3 months, you get to go on vacation and meet new people and be in front of the world and grow up.” I always wanted to do it but, I could never really do it all these years because I played volleyball and I couldn’t just quit school and go on the show;  so I decided to just wait until I graduated. I graduated last year in 2011 (from Howard Uninversity). Last summer was the perfect time for me, because I decided to take a break from working a real corporate job in journalism and I was like you know what “I’m really going to go for this thing.” So I waited for the casting to come around and I ended up on the show. Two weeks in, but better later than never!

ThisISPOP: How did MTV approach you for the show? Were you always casted or was it a decision made due to one of the roommates leaving?
Nia: (Laughter) I say I was always going to be on the show. I’ve had some of my roommates in the house try and diss me and say “oh your'e just a replacement” and I’m like “Even within two weeks on the show I still came on this thing and stole the whole show from all of you here” so being a replacement doesn’t matter. At the end of the day it’s who makes the show worth watching and that’s me and I’m not afraid to admit it. There were some people who were boring, not all of the people but just some of the roommates (just the ones I didn’t get along with and just irrelevant to the show)
I was definitely a finalist, even though I wasn’t part of the original 8, I knew I was going to be picked for the show and they were going to call me. So when they called me I was like “Hell yeah”
 
 
Photo Credit: Nia Moore
 
ThisISPOP: How many audition tapes did you do? Just 1, It looks like you had a lot of different footage.
 
Nia: I did 6 audition tapes and for me! Everyone is like they only ask you for one and I’m like why would I just do what they expect and what everyone else is doing? So I went to the open calls when they came to Atlanta and basically used my resources. I went online and Facebook and talked to people who had been on the Real World before and the only advice they would really give me is to go to the open call. I’m so glad that they did. I wouldn’t have gone because I figured since I made so many tapes that would be enough.  I went to the open calls just so I could make a face to face impression and I’m so glad they did that because I’m sure they were tired of watching my tapes. I was like “they know this girl clearly wants to do it.”

I really didn’t think you guys would see all of that stuff in my audition tapes. Normally they don’t broadcast that, so when my dad saw the clip he was like “Really Nia that’s all you like, a huge dick and food.” And Im like yes those are two things I love. But I really didn’t think it would be shown to the world like that but oh well! I went into the experience totally open and I’ll take the good with the bad.

ThisISPOP: Was it hard filming and driving? The majority of the footage seemed like it was filmed in the car!

Nia: I basically put my MacBook computer on my dashboard, because I had an idea of all this shit I wanted to say and it just became too overwhelming so I was like fuck that… so I just threw it away and I just pushed play and just recorded myself at different times in different days and different situations happening and what was going on in my life. I always felt, my life was made for TV, people would always tell me, you have so much drama, and you’re so made for this. So if that’s the case and that’s the truth I’m just going to talk about the shit that is going on in my real life and who I really am. What you see on that tape is definitely me.
 
Photo Credit: Nia Moore

 
 
Photo Credit: Nia Moore

ThisISPOP: On your debut episode, you could see that all of the roommates were plotting to guess how you would really be after your southern “half white and Cherokee” phone call. You could see that some of the girls already had pre conceived notions about you.  At your first look, could you tell which roommates you would vibe with and which ones you would clash with?
Nia: Right off the back no, because I went into the experience like “I’m about to have 7 new friends, if somebody jumped ship along the way fuck it”.  I went into it giving everyone an equal opportunity to show me the good side of them.  When I walked in the house everybody had something negative to say about Jordan, it’s like I couldn’t unpack my suitcase before I heard some of the roommates saying negative things about him.  For me I know how human nature is, so I knew there was a chance that the boys wanted to be him, and the girls wanted to fuck him maybe because he is an athletic guy, very articulate and comes from a well-kept family. So when I saw him, I felt that he was such a sweet guy, I didn’t see what they saw. That is where I felt like I’m going to wait for this kid to do something to me; I’m not going to believe what these punk ass girls are saying.
They were very sensitive, the girls I lived in the house with were all sensitive females, and I’m just not used to girls like that. This is why me and Joi are so close.  We never met on the show, she and I were so similar, out of everyone in the house I would say that she would be the girl that I would probably hang out with in real life. I wanted to find something I had in common with all of those girls…which I did. I found something I had in common with Anastasia, Jess. It’s just funny seeing that they had all these negative pre conceived notions about me, just saying hi. They basically just really racially profiled me, many people don’t want to talk about it but had I been a blonde hair, blue eyed white girl they wouldn’t have been so quick to say that she is going to have problems or Jess saying “She looks like she parties too much” What the fuck does party too much mean first of all? Then Anastasia and Avery saying in the bathroom that she is going to pick fights, and two seconds later after we had a few drinks they are like “OMG you’re so awesome” again why did you have to think the stereotype that all black girls are loud and crazy and mean an violent?  That’s not me at all. I am such a down to earth cool person; I don’t get into confrontations unless I have to defend myself. I am not a starter but I am a great finisher.
Photo Credit: Nia Moore
 
ThisISPOP: You chose to talk about a very personal subject really early into your Real World experience.   How did you decide to talk about your past sexual assault?
Nia: When I first started talking about it, me and Marlon were having a really deep conversation, he was telling me about his life and we came full circle into the conversation about something I don’t talk about especially to the whole world. Half of my school didn’t know this, some of my friends didn’t know this I kept a small circle of people who had to be involved, people who were tied to the incident and my friends and my sisters. I tried to sweep it under the rug because I thought it was embarrassing. When I saw the episode playback I was like “ooo I totally forgot.” I talked about it in my audition tape, but in that I was brutally honest and I never thought that anyone would see that but the producers. That’s  part of me that I thought no one would ever see, it’s not like I was going to go out to the world and talk about it again.
When I saw it playback I was like “Damn now I don’t want people feeling sorry for me and calling me like “I heard what happened.” This happened when I was 18/19 years old, I don’t want people to think that I’m some broken, scorned woman; I definitely survived it and changed for the better. This is the point where I realized that me talking about it, there are so many woman and men who went through situations like mine and were too afraid, or embarrassed or don’t know if anyone would believe them, or for whatever reason. I felt like this was my story and my truth, so If someone wanted to come out and say “She is a bold faced liar, she really is a gold digging whore.” I could say I don’t care, I know my truth I know what I went through, with the trail and the whole situation. I want everyone to know, you can’t run from these situations. For me I looked on the brightside because you don’t know how many times you watched a movie and seen a girl get raped, or killed or tossed in the gutter or catch a disease, there are so many other things that could have happened. I was fine, I was more angry with myself that I let it happen. I felt like,” you know what Nia had you not left your drink around some guy that you barley even knew, and giving someone the benefit of the doubt when you don’t know him, this wouldn’t have happened.”
 
 
 
ThisISPOP: Are you still friends with any of your roommates? Did you and Daisy ever start to get along?
Nia: I am friends with the majority of the people that I lived with. Daisy that is like my godchild I don’t care if I ever see her parents again, Daisy will always be in my heart. She slept in my bed 90 percent of the time I was in Portland; her parents slept together in the bed right next to mine. They were always doing their thing, but when I started feeding her that was my way of being like “I could always keep this bitch with me” she was more of my dog than their's. I had my own little call, but she definitely ran when things got crazy.
ThisISPOP: Would you do your Real World experience again?
Nia:Yes! I would totally do it again. I had the time of my life for good and bad reasons, but that’s just life in general.  I feel like the stuff that went on in the house, other than the physical stuff was just normal life for me anyways. Just wild fun, drunken parties, boy problems, all that stuff is just typical 23 year old stuff.  I was comfortable as hell as you could tell in the first 5 minutes. I did a show before that called The Choice, basically if you have stage fright this is how you get over it. The cameras are everywhere; it’s literally like moving plant in the room.
ThisISPOP: What is next for Hurricane Nia? Is there a possible spin off in the works?
Nia: I would love a spin off! If everything works out that will be my next project. My book soon, once in for all is coming out. “How to play the game” it is the ultimate playbook on how to date and keep a professional athlete. It was pretty much an investigative journalist project of mines but I guarantee it’s never been done before and there are so many people who have questions. All direct interviews I conducted with the players and their wives and mistresses about what it takes to be in that type of relationship.  Of course more TV, modeling and acting!
ThisISPOP: When all of the Real World Portland episodes air, what do you want people to think of you?
Nia: I get this all the time, "you’re so nice you’re so cool, not like the girl I saw on the show.” But people have to remember you only got 5 percent of everything that is filmed. It’s impossible to tell the whole story of everything that was filmed. I have always held myself accountable and I’ve always held myself self-aware on doing the right thing, and speaking before I act, but I’m not perfect so I know the people who know me know me and think very highly of me, that because how I walked through life before I walked on the show.
"But I say before you get to know me hang out, smoke a blunt have a drink, talk to me before you assume what you see on TV is 100 percent accurate and me. It’s just television!"


 

 

Sunday, May 5, 2013

Birdman Presents: Rich Gang Tapout (Explict)


YMCMB producer Birdman drop the official video for the track Tapout.

The video features verses from the man himself, Lil Wayne and Nicki Minaj, and a hook by Future.  It wouldn't be a Young Money video without pretty women. Paris Hilton and Christina Milian play the leading ladies.

Check out the clip contains a mansion party turned back heist gone wrong. Who can you trust?

Watch the official video for Tapout




Saturday, May 4, 2013

Saturday Night Vibes.


Who can resist Miguel, or Kendrick Lamar? Not Us.

Here is the video for Miguel's new single off his "Kaleidoscope Dreams" Album. How Many Drinks?

Mrs. Carter, Does the Queen know you are shutting down London?

Photo Credit: Ludacris Instagram
 
Queen Bey has touched down in London town. Beyonce' graced the beautiful city of London with her presence has she continued making her rounds on her Mrs. Carter world tour. After doing some slight sight seeing (pics courtesy of her instagram) her and her bedazzled blue cat suit performed her 24 song set  in front of a sold out crowd.
 
 
With the likes of Kim Kardashian (plus 1) and Ludacris (thanks for the above snap shot sir) in the audience, we are hearing rave reviews about the show.
 
 
Cant wait until she stops in the states, July please hurry up!


TLC movie officially in the works!!


Photo Credit: KeKe Palmer Instagram
 
It's official, break out your cross-colors, multi colored condoms, and old TLC Cd's (I've already done all of the above) VH1 has started filming for the TLC biopic slated to air this fall. The network has enlisted former Nick star Keke Palmer, The Game star Drew Sidora, and rapper/dancer/judge Lil Mama to play Rozonda "Chilli" Thomas, Tionne "T-Boz Watkins, and Lisa "Left Eye" Lopez.


Along with the photo released above, the news also broke that the two remaining members of the super group will be producing the project. Super excited about this movie...Are you?


Who was your favorite member of TLC, What was your favorite song?

Sounds like summertime to me. Ariana Grande ft. Mac Miller 'The Way"

 
 
There is nothing like a Big Pun sample, and a cute hook!
 
 
Ariana Grande has both with her newest single "The Way" featuring Mac Miller. As if the song wasn't enough, the visual is just as good. Grande keeps it simple and fun.
 
 
Adding this song to my "Songs of the Summer" list.
 
 
Enjoy. 

Friday, May 3, 2013

Pretty Little Liars Update...

Photo Credit: Pretty Little Liars Facebook
 
It would not be a comeback post without talking about the comeback of Pretty Little Liars. With the return of our favorite show just a little over a month away today ABC Family blessed fans all over with the trailer for the fourth season.
 
Whats in the trunk?
 
 
 
 
Photo Credit: Pretty Little Liars Facebook
 
In other liars news, we learned that resident bad boy and 1/2 of Haleb (Tyler Blackburn) will be moving from Rosewood to the Pretty Little Liars spin off series Ravenswood. Although we are sad to see him go we are pretty excited to see what kind of trouble Caleb can shake up just a few miles away.
 
I guess we will have to stay tuned!